Love letters are one of the best ways to show your partner how much you appreciate them. A well-written note can make your significant other feel more loved than ever. This is especially true if their “love language” is words of affirmation.
But, how do you write a good love letter? We recommend starting with freewriting and a first draft to write a more effective note. Keep reading to learn how to write better so you can give your partner something sure to make them swoon.
Where to Start
As with any writing, starting is usually the hardest part.
A mistake many people make when writing love letters is only writing them once. Especially if you have a card, you may be tempted to freestyle your note and be done with it.
By doing so, the note probably won’t be structured well, and you may not say everything you want to. Instead, we recommend spending some time brainstorming. Either do this on a separate piece of paper or in your phone’s notes app.
Think about your partner and write whatever comes to your mind. This is called free-writing and is a powerful tool for any creative writing. Because this is a rough draft, it doesn’t matter too much what you write. This is a way to get the gears turning and find a few good ideas you can put into your final note.
You don’t have to go overboard here, but we recommend writing enough until you feel inspired. Now it’s time to write your first draft!
Next Steps
From here, take your freewriting and turn it into a working draft.
Focus on creating an effective structure for your letter. Be sure to add plenty of personal details to show you care. Mention specific things you appreciate about your partner. Call back to recent events that reinforce your love.
Remember to use your writing as a chance to show your partner how much they mean to you instead of just telling them.
Once you’ve got a solid draft, it’s time to put pen to paper and write your final copy. Make any changes you need to your draft so the final note is perfect. Special touches like little drawings or decorations go a long way as well. Hiding your note somewhere for your partner to find is another great touch.
And remember, love letters shouldn’t only be for special occasions! Many people will appreciate getting a thoughtful note for the sake of it. So, don’t be afraid to surprise your partner with a special note out of the blue.
Conclusion
Taking the time to write a thoughtful note for your partner is a great way to show your appreciation for them. Even if you’re not a wordsmith, following the steps outlined in this article is a great way to write a better note.
So, before taking pen to paper, do some free-writing and outline a first draft. You may be surprised at how much better your final product is!
